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It sounds like he does almost everything!!?\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cI wish I was a pampered princess.\u201d\r\n\r\nAnd I admit, I bristled a bit at the implications. Hey! I thought. How can anyone try to judge how much I do in my marriage, even if it were a competition \u2014 which it totally isn\u2019t, right?\r\n\r\n\u0022\u0022\u003Ccenter\u003E\u0022\u0022[[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=121 Dating In 40ies France]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=120 Dating For Over 50 in France]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=119 +60 Personals in France]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=86 French Craigslist  Singles ]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=58 French Big Women]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=12 French Mature Dating]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=10 French Women Seeking Men]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?page=23 French Insta Females]] | [[https:\/\/www.loveawake.com\/free-online-dating\/France-dating-service.html?gender=female\u0026page=61 French Women For Marriage]]\u0022\u0022\u003C\/center\u003E\u0022\u0022\r\n\r\nBut then again, the comments made me take pause and wonder:\r\n\r\nDo I do enough for my husband?\r\n\r\nI\u2019ve praised my husband up and down for always getting up with the kids at night, changing the baby\u2019s diaper and swaddling like a master before handing the bundled-up babe off to me for a feeding. I\u2019ve been grateful that he has always been willing to support my writing career by letting me have time to myself. I admire how he never complains when his hobbies got pushed to the middle of the night, long after the rest of the house has fallen asleep.\r\n\r\nAnd although I think it\u2019s so important to take the time to be grateful for my husband, if I\u2019m being honest, I will say that I also need a gut-check if I\u2019m being as equal of a partner as I expect him to be. \r\n\r\nIt\u2019s very easy for us to find articles and magazines and blog posts that proclaim men need to do their fair share and that women \u201cdeserve\u201d those breaks because, after all, we\u2019re working and baby-rearing and scrubbing toilets, gosh darn it.\r\n\r\nBut the truth is, I don\u2019t \u201cdeserve\u201d any breaks out of my day any more than my husband \u201cdeserves\u201d to have a wife who cares for his children. \r\n\r\nWe do these things for each other because we choose to, because we believe that love means forgoing ourselves for the other sometimes. I\u2019m not \u201cin charge\u201d of my marriage, and my husband isn\u2019t some roommate who has to be on his best behavior around me while I\u2019m busy having it all because that\u2019s my right as a woman.\r\n\r\nWe both sacrifice and lay down our little offerings of love at the feet of the other, hoping to be understood and recognized for our offerings.\r\n\r\nSo, yes, commenters of the less-than-admiring variety, I admit that it\u2019s good for me to take the time to realize that \u201chaving it all\u201d isn\u2019t all about me. It\u2019s also about supporting and respecting my husband, in both big and little ways. My contributions of love may not look the same as his, nor do I think they will stay the same our whole lives, but nonetheless, there you have it: the ways I show my love to my husband are the ways I help make sure he has it all, too.\r\n\r\nWhen I take the time to make his lunch every single night, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I decided to take on the responsibility of all the house cleaning, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I stay home with our children to raise them in the way we both feel is right, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I get up every two hours to nurse a hungry baby, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I will push with every ounce of strength I have to deliver the baby I am carrying, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I keep track of the family finances, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nWhen I organize a monthly calendar and take our children to the doctor and remind him of his meeting, I am loving him.\r\n\r\nThe older and wiser I\u2019ve grown, the more I\u2019ve realized that marriage is a two-way street. \r\n\r\nAnd sometimes, I have to make sure I\u2019m not taking a little detour.\r\n\r\nRead more of Chaunie\u2019s posts here or learn more about Chaunie (and her husband) by checking out her blog and following along on Facebook! 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I mean, I thought I was cool. I was calm. I didn\u2019t lose my head or anything. I am so over this, right? Oh sure. And that\u2019s why one of my closest friends pointed out to me this weekend that I have told her my ex is engaged every single time I\u2019ve seen her since it happened.\r\n\r\nThat\u2019s right, my ex is engaged. And I\u2019m not taking it well.\r\n\r\nIt doesn\u2019t seem fair, you know? I have two ex-husbands now. Two of them. Not to imply that I\u2019m a perfect angel, because I\u2019m not. But both of them did something pretty terrible to me. So it seems like in some karmic way I should come out on top, right? Of course.\r\n\r\nExcept ex #1 is married to the girl he slept with while we were married and they have a son now. And ex #2 has hauled off and gotten engaged to the girl he was dating while he was trying to get me back. And what of me? That\u2019s right, I\u2019m living alone without a boyfriend or even a cat.\r\n\r\nSinglegal reminded me today that I\u2019m not the only one. That I\u2019m normal. But that doesn\u2019t stop me from joining her in her virtual temper tantrum. Or from thinking that it\u2019s simply not fair.\r\n\r\nI was the one who was wronged. I was the one who was hurt. I was the one who did the right thing. And I\u2019m the only one who\u2019s still alone. So you see, it isn\u2019t fair. It isn\u2019t fair that I\u2019m also the one who goes to bed alone every night. That I\u2019m the one who is starved for human touch. That I\u2019m the one who still cries themself to sleep some nights. That I\u2019m the one who is starting to think I\u2019m meant to be alone and never meant to have children.\r\n\r\nIronically, I don\u2019t want either of these men. I am happier without them, and that\u2019s not a line. I don\u2019t regret leaving in either case. I\u2019m not sorry.\r\n\r\nBut still, it\u2019s not fair. And I want to be over it. I want to be ok with this, but I\u2019m not. I\u2019m not fine. I\u2019m not cool. And I haven\u2019t been able to let go yet. And that makes me angrier than their newborn son or their engagement announcement. The fact that I can\u2019t let go is what weighs on me now. I want to be over it. I want to be done. So why aren\u2019t I?\r\n\r\nYesterday as I laid down for a nap I dreamed of ex #2. I dreamed he sent me pictures of his new apartment with his new fiancee. I dreamed he told me how he was doing things right with her even though he didn\u2019t with me. Then, in my dream, I somehow let myself in while they weren\u2019t home, and looked around. It was a beautiful place. What I might have wanted with him once upon a time. And just as I went to leave, he came home. I ran and hid and then abruptly woke up with my heart pounding.\r\n\r\nI wish I were a bigger person than this, but apparently I\u2019m not. I wish I were over this, but apparently I\u2019m not. I wish I were better than this, but apparently I\u2019m not.\r\n\r\nAnd sometimes, life just isn\u2019t fair.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-05-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-05-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"NotFair","date_creation_fiche":"2025-05-08 17:30:13","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":null,"fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-05-08 17:30:13","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-05-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-05-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022NotFair\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-05-08 17:30:13\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-05-08 17:30:13\u0022 ","owner":"","url":"https:\/\/aidants.nosmemoiresvives.fr\/?NotFair"}}