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NAME:Youpi ici c'est le titre
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DESCRIPTION:Une journée pour faire avancer le projet Yeswiki dans la 
 bonne humeur\r\nSource: https://aidants.nosmemoiresvives.fr/?YeswikidaY
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SUMMARY:Marriage Is a Two-Way Street: How My Husband and I Help Each Other
 "Have It All"
NAME:Marriage Is a Two-Way Street: How My Husband and I Help Each Other 
 "Have It All"
DESCRIPTION:Last month, in the spirit of romance, I penned a love letter 
 to my husband called, “The Man Behind How I Have It All.“\n\nIt was a 
 little tribute to the wonderful partner whom I have in life, the man who 
 is always supportive of me and is truly a team player when it comes to 
 parenting.\n\nBut, as many things go when it comes to judging another 
 couple’s marriage, many were quick to jump on the “bad wife” 
 wagon.\n\nSome of the comments I got went a little something like 
 this,\n\n“What exactly does this woman do all day? It sounds like he 
 does almost everything!!?”\n\n“I wish I was a pampered 
 princess.”\n\nAnd I admit, I bristled a bit at the implications. Hey! I 
 thought. How can anyone try to judge how much I do in my marriage, even if
 it were a competition — which it totally isn’t, right?\n\nFrench Women
 For Marriage 
 (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/France-dating-service.html?g
 ender=female&page=61)\n\nBut 
 then again, the comments made me take pause and wonder:\n\nDo I do enough 
 for my husband?\n\nI’ve praised my husband up and down for always 
 getting up with the kids at night, changing the baby’s diaper and 
 swaddling like a master before handing the bundled-up babe off to me for a
 feeding. I’ve been grateful that he has always been willing to support 
 my writing career by letting me have time to myself. I admire how he never
 complains when his hobbies got pushed to the middle of the night, long 
 after the rest of the house has fallen asleep.\n\nAnd although I think 
 it’s so important to take the time to be grateful for my husband, if 
 I’m being honest, I will say that I also need a gut-check if I’m being
 as equal of a partner as I expect him to be. \n\nIt’s very easy for us 
 to find articles and magazines and blog posts that proclaim men need to do
 their fair share and that women “deserve” those breaks because, after 
 all, we’re working and baby-rearing and scrubbing toilets, gosh darn 
 it.\n\nBut the truth is, I don’t “deserve” any breaks out of my day 
 any more than my husband “deserves” to have a wife who cares for his 
 children. \n\nWe do these things for each other because we choose to, 
 because we believe that love means forgoing ourselves for the other 
 sometimes. I’m not “in charge” of my marriage, and my husband 
 isn’t some roommate who has to be on his best behavior around me while 
 I’m busy having it all because that’s my right as a woman.\n\nWe both 
 sacrifice and lay down our little offerings of love at the feet of the 
 other, hoping to be understood and recognized for our offerings.\n\nSo, 
 yes, commenters of the less-than-admiring variety, I admit that it’s 
 good for me to take the time to realize that “having it all” isn’t 
 all about me. It’s also about supporting and respecting my husband, in 
 both big and little ways. My contributions of love may not look the same 
 as his, nor do I think they will stay the same our whole lives, but 
 nonetheless, there you have it: the ways I show my love to my husband are 
 the ways I help make sure he has it all, too.\n\nWhen I take the time to 
 make his lunch every single night, I am loving him.\n\nWhen I decided to 
 take on the responsibility of all the house cleaning, I am loving 
 him.\n\nWhen I stay home with our children to raise them in the way we 
 both feel is right, I am loving him.\n\nWhen I get up every two hours to 
 nurse a hungry baby, I am loving him.\n\nWhen I will push with every ounce
 of strength I have to deliver the baby I am carrying, I am loving 
 him.\n\nWhen I keep track of the family finances, I am loving him.\n\nWhen
 I organize a monthly calendar and take our children to the doctor and 
 remind him of his meeting, I am loving him.\n\nThe older and wiser I’ve 
 grown, the more I’ve realized that marriage is a two-way street. \n\nAnd
 sometimes, I have to make sure I’m not taking a little detour.\n\nRead 
 more of Chaunie’s posts here or learn more about Chaunie (and her 
 husband) by checking out her blog and following along on 
 Facebook!\r\nSource: 
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SUMMARY:Not Fair
NAME:Not Fair
DESCRIPTION:Public Displays of Affection (https://bit.ly/4iAh4rM)\nSecrets
 for a More Satisfying Relationship (https://bit.ly/4cJoOpU)\nA Note To 
 Guys About Helping Your Date Feel Safe (https://bit.ly/42Kuong)\nAvoid the
 First Date Let Down (https://bit.ly/4iyySn7)\nLetting Go of the Control 
 Freak (https://bit.ly/4ixhb7g)\nKeep It Classy America 
 (https://bit.ly/4iOHdDr)\nHow To Be More Emotionally Low Maintenance 
 (https://bit.ly/3S29BGX)\nI Like Me! (https://bit.ly/4itFT8I)\nWhy Are You
 Still Single? (https://bit.ly/4itFN0Q)\nHow Do You Meet Someone New? 
 (https://bit.ly/3S56OwG)\n\nApparently I am not as cool as I wish I was. I
 mean, I thought I was cool. I was calm. I didn’t lose my head or 
 anything. I am so over this, right? Oh sure. And that’s why one of my 
 closest friends pointed out to me this weekend that I have told her my ex 
 is engaged every single time I’ve seen her since it 
 happened.\n\nThat’s right, my ex is engaged. And I’m not taking it 
 well.\n\nIt doesn’t seem fair, you know? I have two ex-husbands now. Two
 of them. Not to imply that I’m a perfect angel, because I’m not. But 
 both of them did something pretty terrible to me. So it seems like in some
 karmic way I should come out on top, right? Of course.\n\nExcept ex #1 is 
 married to the girl he slept with while we were married and they have a 
 son now. And ex #2 has hauled off and gotten engaged to the girl he was 
 dating while he was trying to get me back. And what of me? That’s right,
 I’m living alone without a boyfriend or even a cat.\n\nSinglegal 
 reminded me today that I’m not the only one. That I’m normal. But that
 doesn’t stop me from joining her in her virtual temper tantrum. Or from 
 thinking that it’s simply not fair.\n\nI was the one who was wronged. I 
 was the one who was hurt. I was the one who did the right thing. And I’m
 the only one who’s still alone. So you see, it isn’t fair. It isn’t 
 fair that I’m also the one who goes to bed alone every night. That I’m
 the one who is starved for human touch. That I’m the one who still cries
 themself to sleep some nights. That I’m the one who is starting to think
 I’m meant to be alone and never meant to have children.\n\nIronically, I
 don’t want either of these men. I am happier without them, and that’s 
 not a line. I don’t regret leaving in either case. I’m not 
 sorry.\n\nBut still, it’s not fair. And I want to be over it. I want to 
 be ok with this, but I’m not. I’m not fine. I’m not cool. And I 
 haven’t been able to let go yet. And that makes me angrier than their 
 newborn son or their engagement announcement. The fact that I can’t let 
 go is what weighs on me now. I want to be over it. I want to be done. So 
 why aren’t I?\n\nYesterday as I laid down for a nap I dreamed of ex #2. 
 I dreamed he sent me pictures of his new apartment with his new fiancee. I
 dreamed he told me how he was doing things right with her even though he 
 didn’t with me. Then, in my dream, I somehow let myself in while they 
 weren’t home, and looked around. It was a beautiful place. What I might 
 have wanted with him once upon a time. And just as I went to leave, he 
 came home. I ran and hid and then abruptly woke up with my heart 
 pounding.\n\nI wish I were a bigger person than this, but apparently I’m
 not. I wish I were over this, but apparently I’m not. I wish I were 
 better than this, but apparently I’m not.\n\nAnd sometimes, life just 
 isn’t fair.\r\nSource: https://aidants.nosmemoiresvives.fr/?NotFair
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